If you keep having the same fight no matter how many times you resolve it, something deeper is running underneath it. This post breaks down the pursue-withdraw cycle, why it hits hardest when you have young children, and what you can actually do about it, starting tonight.

Most couples who come to me for therapy are not fighting about the dishes. They are fighting about something much harder to name. In this piece, I am unpacking what is really happening underneath the mental load conversation, why the most common response makes things worse, and the one question that can change everything.

Most couples spend months preparing for the baby and almost nothing preparing for each other. Research shows that the couples who navigate the first year best are the ones who went in prepared. These four conversations are the place to start.

Pregnancy resentment is real, it is common, and it makes complete sense when you understand what is actually happening. In this post I break down exactly why pregnancy can bring up such uncomfortable feelings toward your partner, what is normal, what is worth paying attention to, and how to tell the difference.

The transition to parenthood is one of the biggest shifts a relationship can face. Learn why couples often fight more after a baby arrives and how understanding four common pitfalls can help you reconnect as partners.